Love

I am pondering what love is and how it works. Only in the English language can we say, "I love pizza" and "I love God." The meaning is totally different. So those are fairly straight forward but what does it mean to love your husband? You kids? Yourself?? and how do you love those people. One answer I would want to answer is unconditionally, but is that possible? truly, be honest, possible? I would have a hard time saying yes. I would want to love unconditionally but when you are hurting, it is so hard to forgive, forget and continue to love. Ok, technically, I know it IS possible, but it is really, really hard to do.

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedi

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Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.^[1] Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".^[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others or oneself based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.

From dictionary.com

love

   [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb, loved, lov·ing.

noun

1.

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.

a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, asfor a parent, child, or friend.

3.

sexual passion or desire.

4.

a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person;sweetheart.

5.

(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection,or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

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verb (used with object)

15.

to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.

16.

to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for(another person).

17.

to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to lovemusic.

18.

to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.

19.

to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.

So I think to most interesting thing is love can be a noun or a verb. Do people get those two confused??

Can you "Love" (the verb) even when you don't "Love" (the noun)? What if you are mad at that person, what does love look like then?

These are just few questions I am pondering today... and every day... :o)

self awareness

So I haven't posted in a long.... time..... I just don't know if this is where I need to spend my energy. I am quite indecisive. Good golly!

So I found this article on FB today and I decided, for some reason, I needed to post it onto this blog. Even though I haven't written on here in mult. years? Why?? Maybe this was a calling? a nudge from God? Who knows, but I decided I should follow the instructions because it just might help someone? Who knows?

http://themagneticentrepreneur.com/123/why-you-might-be-having-trouble-feeling-grateful/

I am reading a book called "The Mindful Way Through Depression" and it basically follows what this article says. You can't just decided to be more grateful and not give other emotions their time they need. They are emotions and who is to say that we aren't allowed to feel that way? Guilt and gratitude can not live in the same place at the same time! I like it!

I biggest problem at this very moment is how do I give those I love time and energy that I feel I need to give to myself? I don't give myself time and energy... I know this is no ones problem but my own. No one forces me to live and think that way. I do it on my own free will. I just don't know how to "give" to everyone. I don't know how to make myself a priority without sacrificing others. My husband I haven't been getting along at all lately. It make me sad and angry. That I can't figure out how to make this work out without compromising myself... how do you do that? It is the same as finding time to exercise without something else sacrificing? It seems so complicated, however I believe the answer is easy, I just can't seem to see it. I have a few friends who seem to do well with this. When I ask them about it, they don't even seem to understand the question. This is what makes me believe it is easy... it is so easy that people don't understand the question when I ask it. They must be thinking, "she must not be asking what I think she is asking...that is crazy???" It kinda makes me smile just thinking about it.